“Receiving Favor” by Allowing Jesus to Love You

When I think of favor, I remember as a child my Dad would ask me if I would do a favor for Him. I was always glad to do a favor for my Dad. Why? Because if he asked me to do something for him, it meant he trusted me. It means he felt whatever the task was he wanted me to do, I would be able to do it because he must believe in me. He must feel that I am ready. I was honored to be asked.

As I grew older I felt what he would ask me to do a favor for him, I was beginning to think he is asking is something he could do himself. But actually, I believe God was teaching me all about favor: God-centered favor, or worldly favor, and obedience. As I got older, I got more defiant and would tell my dad, “Why don’t you do it yourself?” but then I would always do what he asked me. I would do it because I also feared my dad. Not so sure about the love.

My wife had a beautiful revelation this past week. When she was praying, God told her she does not have to call him God, but she can call him Dad. To those who do not know Him, He is called God — but to her he is Dad or Father. Lines right up with the prayer Jesus taught His disciples, “Our Father…who is in Heaven…Holy is your name.

God tells us over and over to fear not for He is with us. For the believer, the fear of the Lord is to “worship the Lord with all your hear,t soul and strength.”

God loves us, and the favor He has for us is so different from the world’s idea of favor. The world’s way of favor always has strings attached: “You owe me.”

The word “grace” is not a verb but a noun, and this noun is a person, Jesus. Jesus is grace, and grace means God’s favor for the believer. Undeserved favor. The difference between our father on earth and our heavenly father is when God asks us to do something, he will also provide everything you need to accomplish the mission. Favor from God is through Jesus. God’s favor is grace and He gives us an undeserved supply. We deserve death, but Jesus took that punishment for us.

Jesus came — grace, love, favor — not for you to be afraid of Him, but to come to Him, to allow Him to love you so that you might love Him.

Grace and peace be multiplied to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord… (2 Peter 1:2)

Listen to this verse in the amplified:

May Grace (God’s favor) and peace (which is perfect well-being, all necessary good, all spiritual prosperity, and freedom from fears and agitating passions and moral conflicts) be multiplied to you in ( the full, personal, precise, and correct) knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord.

The more you know and see and hear Jesus, unmerited favor of God will flow out of every area of your life. Right believing will produce right living. His favor will become evident in your marriage, work, finances, etc.

God’s unmerited favor is the Gospel of Grace: Jesus. Grace or favor is not a doctrine or belief or verb. Grace is a noun, and His name is JESUS!!!

Favor makes us like Jesus. Favor is a revelation with joy… Favor is life… Favor means God is with you…  Grace means undeserved Favor from God… Grace means favor to the unworthy.

The law is right doing. Grace is right believing.  If you live under law you are demanding. If you live under grace you see God supply your needs. Under grace, God will never ask something of you without supplying you with what you need.  Jesus told His disciples this before he returned to Heaven:

And being assembled together with them, He commanded them not to depart from Jerusalem, but to wait for the Promise of the Father, “which,” He said, “you have heard from Me; 5 for John truly baptized with water, but you shall be baptized with the Holy Spirit not many days from now.” (Acts 1:4-6)

Acts 1:8 tells us…

But you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be witnesses to Me in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.”

By being baptized in the Holy Spirit one receives power to overcome the world with power. God’s favor, God’s grace, comes with power. It all comes from Him!

We all want to have God’s favor, His Grace. Who doesn’t want to receive God’s best? We receive His grace and favor the moment we begin to follow and believe in Christ.

We need to expect and enjoy God’s unmerited favor. The man, Jesus – 100 percent man, 100 percent God – became sin on the cross that we might receive His righteousness. Christ gives us right standing with God. Undeserved favor. You do not work for righteousness. You do not earn righteousness. You don’t earn grace.

8 For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, 9 not of works, lest anyone should boast. (Eph 2:7-9)

We all receive the same amount of righteousness.

21 For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him. (2 Cor 5:21-6:1)

Righteousness is not a list of things you have to do. If that were true, we would feel like failures all the time. If your thinking is like that, you will often feel unrighteous. Look at this scripture one more time:

 21 For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him. (2 Cor 5:21-6:1)

It does not say we become righteous because we do right. No — it says we become righteous because of what Jesus did for us at the cross. Therefore, righteousness is not based on our right doing, but on the right doing of Jesus.

We seem to think that if we feed the poor, help the widow, do good for the broken, we become more righteous. That sounds great! But God never justified your righteousness by your deeds. God loves you, yes, but you are justified (made righteous) by the tremendous sacrifice His only Son made on the cross for us. Only Jesus makes your righteousness possible.

Listen to this wonderful scripture. Paul writes:

21 I am not one of those who treats Christ’s death as meaningless. For if we could be saved by keeping Jewish laws, then there was no need for Christ to die. (Gal 2:21)

Here is what Paul is saying: If you are counting on your good works to become righteous, then Jesus died for nothing.

I watched the Passion of the Christ. And it’s more than a movie, all the suffering Jesus did for us on the cross. Hit, slapped, spit on, cursed, whipped raw, flesh exposed, bones exposed, beard torn out, crown of thorns pressed into his head, carrying a raw cut cross to a hill, nailed in the hands and feet and raised onto this cross to suffocate and die. We never killed Jesus – He laid his life down for us so that we could receive His righteousness.

Jesus paid for your righteousness only with His Blood.

Jesus became sin. He Who did not know sin, He Who had never sinned, took our sins – for the past, for the present, for the future. He took your sins and my sins, and in place of your sins, He gave you and me righteousness…undeserved favor…grace!

6 And if by grace, (unmerited favor) then it is no longer of works; otherwise grace (unmerited favor) is no longer grace (unmerited favor). But if it is of works, it is no longer grace; otherwise work is no longer work. (Rom 11:6)

You are either dependent on Jesus of you are dependent on yourself.

His incredible grace will come through for you even at times when you never deserve it. Even when you blow it or fail in your walk. You never deserved it in the first place. It’s a gift. His grace is always sufficient for me. He forgives me my sins.

Paul tells us that all of his righteous deeds under the law are nothing but filthy rags next to the righteousness of Christ.

8 Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the priceless gain of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. I have put aside all else, counting it worth less than nothing, in order that I can have Christ, 9 and become one with him, no longer counting on being saved by being good enough or by obeying God’s laws, but by trusting Christ to save me; for God’s way of making us right with himself depends on faith-counting on Christ alone. (Phil 3:7-10)

It is only because of the righteousness of Christ that we are entitled to His unmerited favor. God loves you!


“And Ruth the Moabite said to Naomi, “Let me go to the fields and pick up the leftover grain behind anyone in whose eyes I find favor.” (Ruth 2:2)

Grace is undeserved favor from the Lord. Think of a time where you deserved punishment or retribution for wronging someone, but instead they extended grace to you. Now think of times have you had an opportunity to practice grace. Think of someone who has wronged you. Jesus calls us to extend grace to our enemies, to bless them instead of cursing them.

Because Ruth was a Moabite, she did not deserve to live in Israel. But she not only went there – she found favor there.

“For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” (Hebrews 4:12)

Are you praying for someone? Are you trying to find answers? Turn to the Bible. Read and memorize so you will have scriptures in your heart for these times. Your spirit needs to feast on the words of God everyday, remembering also that Jesus is God’s Word in the flesh!

Ruth went to a field she had never been to, owned by someone she had never met, but nevertheless, she expected she would find favor.

She did find favor in the eyes of Boaz, the owner of the field. He became her kimsman-redeemer. To be kinsman-redeemer, you had to be 3 things:

1) Wealthy
2) A close relative
3) Willing to redeem

Jesus is our kinsman-redeemer. He is wealthy. He became flesh to save us. And He is most definitely willing to redeem, even to redeem outsiders and outcasts.

Naomi didn’t have to pull any strings for Ruth to be allowed in Boaz’s field. We don’t have to pull any strings with God, either. There is no formula to follow, no hoops to jump through.

The church is like a field. The Lord owns the field, and there are legitimate workers in the field, those who have been there for a while and are enjoying the blessings of being a harvester. There are also gleaners – maybe people who are new. The more you come to the field – the more you read His word and fellowship with other believers – the more you will glean, and the more you will grow.